Follow up to Male Exotic Dancing...

So, I was recently asked...
Do you have any tips for guys on how they can take their clothes off and look great? Most guys will probably not want to do a striptease or will feel a little awkward. Any ideas on how they can strip down for their lover and still feel hot?

Here was my response...
I personally think men should leave this stuff alone. It just comes off cheesy. http://www.stripxpertease.com/2007/01/doing-striptease-if-you-are-guyaka-male.html For me it is sexier to ask her to do it. For instance he stands and says I want to strip for you but I'm gonna need your help. Will you please unbutton my shirt? ( buttons are better, more work for the prize!) Perhaps half way through he can kiss her with both hands on her face, very much in control. We woman like that right? A take charge kinda guy. That confidence you spoke of. He can ask her to go slower as well. Then he can ask her to take of his pants by unbuttoning, unzipping, whatever. Again, the please is important. Makes her have some sense of being needed, but yet not totally in control. Shoes should be already off...those things are just plain awkward. I also don't think he should ask her to use her teeth at any point. If she does, great, just don't ask. He should look into her eyes the whole time, sport a naughty hint of a smile, and remain standing. Again this gives him a position of control and confidence. When she has taken off everything, he can then do the same thing to her, by saying now its your turn and slowly undressing her, still gazing in her eyes. The let the hot sex begin!! This whole scene would totally work for me!