There are basically 2 types of vibrators. The ones you insert and the ones you dont. For your first time out of the gate, lets go with the ones you don't insert. Like The Blueberry Buzz that I mentioned. Your first time should be in your room, alone, with the lights dimmed and the mood set. Even putting on a skinamax(Cinemax) late night soft core porn might help. You should be totally naked except for panties. And not those granny panties either. Those little red ones that make you feel super hot! First read the directions and figure out how to load the batteries. Thank god for rechargeable batteries!! If the sound is too loud you can isert some tissue in between the two plastic housings to quiet it down a bit.
Start with the lowest vibration. Begin by just touching your body in different spots, excluding the sweet spot, to get the feeling of the virator agianst your skin. Try your stomach, inner thigh, lips, neck, breasts. Then turn it all the way up and repeat. This will give you an idea of how it will soon feel on your more sensitive parts. Now turn it low again and just work around the clitoris. Again vary the speeds just to feel different sensations. The slowly move in closer. You can lightly tap, or move it over the clitoris in a back in forth motion. Or you can alternate between the two. Then try holding it directly on the clitoris. Try alternating between the 3 until you find a rhythm that works best for you. After you are comfortable with this, try removing your underwear and going bare. You can use a little lube or your own salivia as well. Sometimes orgasm can be achieved with in a few minutes. Or it may take 1/2 an hour. Just dont give up. It will be well worth the wait!
Start with the lowest vibration. Begin by just touching your body in different spots, excluding the sweet spot, to get the feeling of the virator agianst your skin. Try your stomach, inner thigh, lips, neck, breasts. Then turn it all the way up and repeat. This will give you an idea of how it will soon feel on your more sensitive parts. Now turn it low again and just work around the clitoris. Again vary the speeds just to feel different sensations. The slowly move in closer. You can lightly tap, or move it over the clitoris in a back in forth motion. Or you can alternate between the two. Then try holding it directly on the clitoris. Try alternating between the 3 until you find a rhythm that works best for you. After you are comfortable with this, try removing your underwear and going bare. You can use a little lube or your own salivia as well. Sometimes orgasm can be achieved with in a few minutes. Or it may take 1/2 an hour. Just dont give up. It will be well worth the wait!
3 comments:
hi kim i just purchased my 1st on fri. i tried 2 use it but it did nothing 4 me when i used it alone!Was much better when my partner used it on me. I dont understand how sumone else can please me when i dont no how 2 please myself.Do u think im not n tune with my body? if so how do u reach the point?
Well if at first you don't succeed, try and try agian! Of course it will be better with your partner there. But in that monent you are turned on, right? So for the first big O with a vibrator you have to be turned on too! Agian, try to set the mood. Read a little naughty romance novel or watch a late night naughty movie. When you start to get turned on, then give it a try. Don't give up! Keep trying you'll get it some day!!!
Hey confused...did you ever figure it out? Try using it on your clit first, then insertion. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation more than vaginal.
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