Getting grabbed in NYC night clubs

OK. So I am out last night and I get up to go to the bathroom at a crowded NYC bar/dance floor. On my way back, the crowd has gotten a little tighter, so I just have to kind of barrel my way through. I typically do this with one arm up shielding my face, using that elbow to cut the crowd. So I am banging and bumping my way through when I get grabbed. And not my ass...my crotch. And here is how you know it isn't accidental: there is definite cupping and then the guy always looks back. So I start yelling, "What the f*#k, dude? Really?" His friend is now trying to get in my face, which is funny because it is like oh, your friend can't kick my ass but you can? What, you want to fight a girl? This all happens as I am nearing my table so it is pointless to pursue it. But it brings me to my question, or questions.

1. What does he think will happen? That I will reach back for him and we will dry hump on the dance floor?


2. And does this happen to everyone else? I have to say, I went out a lot in Austin and occasionally got the butt grab, but the lower frontal grab seems to be only in NY. And it happens a lot. Seriously, wtf?

"But Its Better If You Do"

Lyrics to "But Its Better If You Do" by Panic at the Disco. This song is cute, and it makes me laugh.

Now I'm of consenting age,
To be forgetting you in a cabaret.
Somewhere downtown where a burlesque
queen,
May even ask my name.
As she sheds her skin on stage,
I'm seated and sweating to a dance song on the clubs PA.
The strip joint veteran sits two away,
Smirking between dignified sips,
Of his dignified peach and lime daiquiri.

And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance, And paying in naivety.
Oh I'm exactly where you like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance, And paying in naivety.

Ohh.
But I'm afraid that I, well I may have faked it.
I wouldn't be caught de-dead-de-dead-de-dead in this place.
Well im afraid that i, well thats right well i may have faked it.
And i wouldn't be caught dead in this place.

And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance, And paying in naivety.
Oh I'm exactly where you like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance, And paying in naivety.

But I'm afraid that I, well I may have faked it.
I wouldn't be caught de-dead-de-dead-de-dead in this place.
Well im afraid that i, well thats right well i may have faked it.
And i wouldn't be caught dead in this place.

And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance, And paying in naivety.
Oh I'm exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me.
You know, praying for love in a lap dance,
And paying in naivety.
Praying for love,
And paying in naivety.
Praying for love,
And paying in naivety OH.

Match.com and internet dating...part I

Since this is something I have been discussing a lot with you gals lately in class, I thought I would talk more about it here. Because you single gals really need to jump on this ride!!

Yes, as most of you who I see often know, after 10 years of on again off again, things are finally really over with "The Boy"....yep, the boy from Texas. So, I am dating again. And let me tell you, it ain't easy! But since I starting dabbling it has gotten easier. And due to the busy life I lead I have been sticking to internet dating, which again, hasn't been easy. But after a year of on again off again on this ride, I have figured out a few things and have finally gotten the hang of it.

Here is how it all started...

So, things starting souring with the boy in late summer of '06. And I was like screw this, I am dating other people! But due to the stresses of StripXpertease I had negative free time. Also, meeting guys in a bar was always weird for me. This was typical:

We meet, he buys me a drink, we chat, and then this happens...
him: so what do you do for work?
me: (internally: oh shit here we go...) well, I uh, teach dance.
him: oh yeah, that's cool. like hip hop or like tango...
me: i teach women (internally: can i really avoid any further questions?)
him: oh yeah? what exactly?
me: (internally: guess not!) I teach umm striptease.
him: wow (with like a head nod and a good look up and down) that's cool.
me:(internally: please don't ask how i got into it)
him: so, how did you get into it?
me: (internally: of course!) well, i used to be a dancer.
him: ohh, like that kind of dancer
me: yep, like that kind of dancer.

And then ladies, it just gets weird. Their demeanor would change and you know it was just awkward for me. So I said OK, bar scene is weird, and I don't have time for it anyway, so what is a girl to do? Then there was one of those E-harmony commercials. I thought OK!! My roomie said that because the sign up process was long and it cost on a monthly basis that I should give it a shot. That there should be quality guys. I said, I am in and joined the masses of daters in September of '06.

Let me just tell you, E-harmony majorly sucked for me. I will tell you more about that later. But during my E-harm run, a close friend had signed up with Match.com. She said it was like shopping, but for boys. She said you can look and look and try on, but you don't really have to buy. Well hell, I love shopping, so in December '06 I signed up for a 6 month run on Match. Again, it was terrible. I met one guy that I actually liked and it quickly became totally f*&^ed up. I mean, ....well ...that will have to be another story. Anyhow, I ended up patching things up with The Boy, realizing that the dating world sucked and none of them could compare to him anyway (yeah, yeah, f'in hindsight).

Well almost 1 yr to the day of the first major problem with The Boy that sent me running to e-harm, there came a second one, last summer. In my heart, this one could not be forgiven. We tumbled along until ....well, again another story. Any-who, right as the last sparks were dying and the painfully lonely holidays were rolling through I got an email from Match. It said 6 months for the price of one. I said screw it, lets give it one more go. And it has been really amazing! I haven't gone on a ton of dates yet, but the ones I have have been great and I have met some men that I really like. There is one in particular, but again, more on that later. I think I have learned how to use the system and how to meet guys that will end up not being jackholes. Guys that I will actually like and that will hopefully like me. I will tell you all more about what I have learned, but for now single gals sign your ass up, and I will be in touch about my latest adventures on the search for Mr. Right...or at least Mr. right now :).

Lace 2 and partying with the boys

Ok...so this is where I ended up after a night of partying on New Yrs Eve. http://www.laceclubs.com/lace2.asp ...Lace 2. Cover was $40 bucks. And boy, this place is frickin" tiny!! Now I have been to Lace in NJ, but this was very different. And I have to say Hustler is still my fave in NYC. I mean it was New Yrs Eve, but still, the service was reallly bad. But it was because they had ONE waitress. And as anyone knows on a holiday like NYE she is going to be forced to party with the boys. It was obvious she had been partying. Poor girl. I would have had a hard time too. She was sweet, but definitely wasted, but then again so was everyone else in there!

You see, men in strip clubs love for girls to party with them. Whatever "party" means for them. But usually that means drinking....shot for shot with them. There were times in my career that I tried not to drink, just to give my poor liver a break. But every time I would make less money. Because guys would actually send you away.

Say you sat down with a table. You are laughing, getting along, and then the waitress comes over to take everyone's drink order.

...Jack and Coke, shot of 1800, Heineken,... and for the lady???

Uh, yeah, I will have a Sprite.

Then it was like one of those cartoon moments when all the guys look at you in unison. "A sprite?!?" Then their eyes start shifting, "Hey honey, get your drink and then come back a little bit later, ok?" Yeah, I knew what that meant. I would get the obligatory smack on the ass and sent on my way, only to see 3 other girls there in a matter of moments drinking with the 3 stooges. And it was like that table after table. I could fare a little better with single guys but groups, forget it. More often than not, you better be ready to party hard or move along.

I think it is because they really do want you to party with them...to be on the same level. They think if your are drunk, then it is less like you are working, less like all you want is their money. But the truth is, drunk or not, I still wanted to make money. But I also think some where in their head it is like being at a real club. They think if I can get this girl drunk, then maybe we can have a little fun. And hell, I am not saying that that hasn't worked on occasion for certain guys and certain dancers. But for the most part it is the same whether your dancer drinks or not. In fact it is usually bad for you to try to get her drunk, because she does this every night and she can usually drink your ass under the table. Then it is you who gets drunk and taken advantage of. It's like the old saying you can't get laid in a strip club, but you sure can get f*#ked. :)

My sexy stocking guy

There was a man who used to come see me. He was older, slightly balding, short...and yet I found him to be strangely sexy. He was always well dressed and very well spoken. He was also in to the S&M scene. I actually learned a few things about that world from him. He looooved thigh highs. I suppose that might of been why he started asking me to come over to his table because I often wore them. Anyhow, one day he actually brought a pair into the club. In a brown bag. He pulled them out and I thought. YAY! How sweet.

Truth is with thigh highs they get snags in the club sooo often. I mean your grinding your shin against various crotches with buttons and zippers. You are on the stage floor, full of splinters. And then their own your own nails, culprit numero uno. So I was stoked that he actually bought a pair. It was no big deal, customer brought in little gifts all the time. But he had special request. He wanted me to put them on ...in front of him. OK. No biggie. It was a simple request. I remember the first time I was like, "Oh shit, what if my feet smell bad?!" Let me tell you stripper shoes can start to get a little stinky. I mean you wear them every night, your feet sweat, and you often get drinks spilled on you and down into your shoe, so all that can make for a bit of the funk. But luckily I was all good. Not that I think he would have minded anyway.

So of course I put them on. Dragging the event out so that he could soak in every moment. It was funny to watch him watch me slowly slide them up. Maybe that is what I liked about him, that I could have this crazy power over him with just a little nylon. He always wanted to sit in the back of the club so that no one could see him. I wondered if he was ashamed of his little fetish. If he only knew the fetishes I had seen in this joint. This was normal baby.

But this became our routine. He didn't really get dances but he would pay me for our little stocking soiree. Worked for me, easy money and free stockings. I wonder where he is now...

NEWSLETTER: February

StripXpertease
February/2008
Due to a leap year, we get one extra day before we say goodbye to February. The month for love, groundhogs, and dead presidents. I, for one, am glad that Valentine's Day is over, because I have a love/hate relationship with this holiday. But whether you love it or hate it, it always comes around, every year, tempting us to top the year before with romantic get-aways, sexy lingerie, and a night filled with passion to rival all other nights. To me, it seems like a big competition for who has the most romantic boyfriend/husband. Bah! Here is how I see February. We only need one holiday! Combine all 3 holidays, call it Ground Presi-tine's Day, and make it a national holiday so that we can stay home from work and be romantic with our loved ones groundhog style! Yeah! Seriously ladies, write your congressman.
Regardless, I hope that this year was good for you, whether you spent it with your honey, your best friends, or alone with those yummy boys, Ben and Jerry! The point is, Valentine's Day is over. The pressure is off. Time to grab your heels, get into class, close your eyes, feel the music, and just let the sexy just flow.

See ya there.

xoxox-Kimberly

SXT News!

For Texas ladies, Stripper Strength will now also be offered on Thursdays at 8 pm starting March 20th. And for New York gals, the Tuesday class has found a permanent home at Pearl Studios starting March 5th.
To help with any confusion, the Desire Series will now be in sections I, II, III, and IV. If you have already had classes and are confused about which series to take, email me and I will help you out.
We now are offering the Lap Dance Intensive and the Strip Club Field Trip in Texas.
And finally, we now have a referral program for private lessons! If you refer 4 friends that each book a private lesson, whether it is just for themselves or for a group such as a birthday or bachelorette party, you will receive a fr*ee in studio private lesson for yourself!

March-April Schedule
Note: To ensure a spot in class, please try to sign up at least 1 week in advance. New Class Schedule Locations are listed on the Rates/Schedule page. Location details on Contact/Location page.

NEW YORK CLASSES
March
Basic Moves Intro Class: March 1st, Sat. 6:15-8:15 pm SOLD OUT
Basic Moves Intro Class: March 31st, Mon. 7-9 pm, TBA
Stripper Strength: Tuesdays 6:10-7:20 pm @ Pearl, Wednesdays 8:10-9:20 pm @ Ripley Grier ***first class is fr*ee!
Stripper Strength short class (55 minutes): Sundays 2 pm @ YSBD
Desire I: March 5th-19th, Wednesdays, 6:10-7:20 pm @ Champions
Desire I Cram: March 8th, Sat. 12:10-4:00 pm SOLD OUT
Desire I Cram: March 29th, Sat. 12:10-4:00 pm @ Pearl
Desire II: March 14th-28th, Fri. 7:10-8:20 pm @ Pearl
Desire II Cram: March 15th, Sat. 12:10-4:00 pm @ Pearl
Lap Dance Intensive: March 27th, Thurs. 7:15-9:15 pm @ Pearl
Strip Club Field Trip: March 20th, Thurs. 8 pm

April
Basic Moves Intro Class: April 12th, Sat. 4-6 pm, TBA
Basic Moves Intro Class: April 24th, Thurs. 7-9 pm, TBA
Stripper Strength: Tuesdays 6:10-7:20 pm @ Pearl, Wednesdays 8:10-9:20 pm @ Ripley Grier, ***first class is fr*ee!
Stripper Strength short class (55 minutes): Sundays 2 pm @ YSBD
Desire I: April 14th-28th, Mondays, 6:40-7:50 pm @ Pearl
Desire I Cram: April 19th, Sat. 12:10-4:00 pm SOLD OUT
Desire II: Dates coming soon
Desire II Cram: April 26th, Sat. 12:10-4:00 pm @ Pearl
Lap Dance Intensive: April 17th, Thurs. 7:15-9:15 pm @ Pearl
Strip Club Field Trip: April 10th, Thurs. 8 pm

AUSTIN, TEXAS CLASSES

March
Basic Moves Intro Class: March 3rd, Mon. 7-9 pm
Basic Moves Intro Class: March 29th, Sat. 4-6 pm
Lap Dance Intensive: March 14th, Fri. 7-9 pm NEW TEXAS CLASS!
Strip Club Field Trip: March 13th, Thurs. 8 pm NEW TEXAS CLASS!
Desire I: March 12th-26th, Wednesdays 7:00-8:10 pm
Desire I Cram: March 15th, Sat 2:00-5:45 pm
Stripper Strength: Tuesdays 7:00-8:10 pm, Thursdays 8:00-9:10 pm (Thursday class starts March 20th)

April
Basic Moves Intro Class: April 12th, Sat 4-6 pm
Basic Moves Intro Class: April 16th, Wed. 8-10 pm
Lap Dance Intensive: April 19th Sat. 7-9 pm
Strip Club Field Trip: April 30th 8 pm
Desire I: April 14th-28th, Mondays 7:00-8:10 pm
Desire I Cram: April 26th, Sat. 2:00-5:45 pm
Stripper Strength: Tuesdays 7:00-8:10 pm, Thursdays 8:00-9:10 pm

Remember, if these dates don't work for you, you can always sign up for a private lesson and take the class when it works for you! Day or night. Class Schedule HERE!

Prices:

Basic Moves Intro Class: $45, $80 for 2

Desire Series: $90

Strip Club Field Trip: $25

Lap Dance Intensive: $45, $80 for 2

Stripper Strength: 1st class is fr*ee. See website for class card prices.

Dymystifying the Strip Club

The strip club field trip is one of my favorite nights of the month. I love going back to the club as a customer. It is like visiting your old hometown. You see how much has changed and yet, how much remains the same. There are things you miss and things that you thank God you don't have to deal with anymore. But what I really enjoy is demystifying the club for girls who have never been. Showing them how sterile sexuality can be here and also how it can ooze from every surface. Revealing the inner workings, exposing secrets, and narrating the internal dialogue every stripper has in her head.
I think a lot of women are secretly dying to step inside. It is kind of like the boy's bathroom. You know it is there, you pretty much know what it looks like, but because it is a mysterious place that you never seem to be allowed to go, there is a little thrill when you step inside. Then you realize, oh, it's just a boy's bathroom. Big deal, and kinda gross!
I remember my first time walking into a strip club. There were breasts everywhere! Part of me just wanted to stare. I mean, never had I seen so many boobs running free. And so many perfect ones at that. Then part of me felt, no, you shouldn't look. It was a battle...look, don't look, hers are huge, you are supposed to look, don't gawk, look again, are those real? And then I witnessed a table dance. Wow! I actually used to think a table dance was done on the actual table. Well, she used the table but the only thing she was dancing on was him. I was also surprised by how the men were reacting. Some were totally mesmerized, others seemed to not even notice the flesh bouncing in their faces, some were even watching TV! I remember thinking the women were all so beautiful. How did they all hold themselves so well, with such confidence? How were they all just walking around naked, like no big deal? How did they all smell so good, have such perfect bodies, such smooth skin? How did they move so slowly, so seductively? How did they make every guy feel like he was the only one in the room. It all felt so magical.
Very soon, I would find the answers to all of those questions. My first year of dancing reflects that childhood memory of discovering how your uncle really pulls a quarter out of your ear. I discovered that it was all smoke, mirrors, and sideshow magic. I also discovered how entertaining and empowering it could be to become the magician.
The great thing for me is even after seeing the man behind the curtain, that magic is still there. Just as even when you learn that the quarter never really leaves his hand but is merely hidden, you still enjoy the trick. I think this is what brings so many men back again. They know how the trick works, but it is still a pretty good trick. There is something so arousing and forbidden about this world where you can be a voyeur or even participate in an atmosphere that intertwines music, writhing bodies, liquor, money, and the two sexes in a constant push-pull for control.
Strip clubs all across the United States are all the same. So if you really want to know what it is like, you simply have to go. A lot of couples and groups of women go on the weekends. Go and see for yourself. Or go with us, we go every month. The field trip is now going on in Texas and New York. Ask questions. Get a lap dance. And like the first time you see a real life magic show you will be awed, amazed, a little mystified, and you'll probably want to see it again.

Secret Special: Save 10% on a private lesson if you put down your deposit on March 3rd.

Give-Away: Be the first to correctly name the song and artist these lyrics belong to and win a free pass to the next Basic Moves Workshop of your choosing. From one of my old school favorite songs to strip to!She paints her eyes as black as night.....Good Luck!!

NEWSLETTERS: February Update

Hot Classes just in time for Valentine's Day!


Classes in NY and TX
Sign up to our extremely sexy classes to make your V-day a little steamier.
Remember, private lessons and our ultra sexy couples class are also available. Private lessons can be held at your convenience.

NEW YORK GALS: Basic Moves Intro class is this Saturday February 9th @ Ripley Grier Studios. This class will give you all the basics plus some hot and erotic lap dance moves like the Slip N' Slide. Sign up with your best gal pal and save. $45 for one, $80 for two. SIGN UP HERE

TEXAS GALS: Desire IA starts Feb 13th @ Free Spirit. 3 weeks of super fun class that ends with a smokin' routine that includes a sultry entrance and the famous Rear Finger Slide! $90 for all 3 weeks! Only one spot left. SIGN UP HERE
If these dates don't work for you, there are several other classes on the schedule including Desire IA Cram, Lap Dance Intensive, Strip Club Field Trip, and more.
MORE INFO ON ALL CLASSES HERE .

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Savannah and the Smack Me guy

OK, so there was this guy who used to come and see this girl Savannah and loved for her to hit him during dances. And I don't mean love taps. I mean he wanted her to knock the fire out of him. She was very well built, with long beautiful hair and very muscular but not scary big, just big enough. And when she hit this guy you could here it across the club. Smack! Bam! Crack! And he LOVED it! Everyone would drop what they were doing to watch them. I loved to watch. I was willing to pass up a dance just to watch. Puuure entertainment.

Lap dance how to!

I didn't write this but it has some good points.

http://www.exotic-lapdance.com/lap-dancing-instructions.html

The ultimate lap dancing instructions guide My notes in red...
Welcome to the ultimate lap dancing guide that will get you bumping and grinding in no time. Have fun following these simply steps, learn to shake it like a pro and drive your partner crazy with no effort at all...
Bumping and grinding not only for professionals
When provided in clubs, lap dancing is generally performed by professional exotic dancers. But you don’t have to be a professional to let loose and have some sexy fun! All you girlfriends, wives, husbands and boyfriends (yes, you guys too!) can learn how to perform a lap dance with this simple lap dancing instructions guide.

Start by internalizing this basic rule for success
First things first, in order to give a lap dance and enjoy any kind of sexual activity, you must FEEL COMFORTABLE with your body. Accept and enjoy yourself regardless of shape or size. Remember - you can't look sexy if you don’t feel sexy. Very true ladies, but this is a no brainer I think. That being said, I know we all have our issues. Try to accentuate the positive and hide the negative.
Now put your wheels in motion – step one of the lap dancing instructions guide
So this is it, you feel great, look great and you're going to make your lover beg for it BIG TIME. Start your lap dance by standing several steps in front of him. Begin moving your hips to the music in a soft circular kind of motion. Take your time, then, in a catlike motion slowly sway toward your partner and when you're near enough, take your lap dance to the next level.
Your next step is all about positioning
Gracefully lift one leg and place it between your partner's wide-opened legs. Then place your other leg on the arm of the chair. Your legs should be positioned wide opened in front of your partner's face – this is a position no guy on earth could resist ! Yeah, easy if you are flexible. For those that aren't lean into one of his legs and then push your toes underneath his other thigh. If you can reach your foot up to his thigh it must stay pointed, Keep your heel lifted or this can look quite terrible. Also don't push down into his thigh just gently rest your toes there.

Continue swaying and passionately run your hands over your body: breasts, ass, feet umm I really don't think there is a need to touch your feet. Hair is better. :)and slowly up to your sweet stuff. Touch yourself as if you're completely turned on and wishing it was him touching your body .
The art of teasing is about to get hotter
If your lover's turned on now, just wait 'til you see how he reacts next. This is my favourite part – showing him some skin… Slowly and teasingly begin removing your clothes. Top first, then bottom, bra, underwear yep, simple huh, ...lol. There is a fine art to clothing removal, but apparently there wasn't enough time for that here and last your stockings and heels NO!!!! leave these on. Are you crazy?. Be cool and take your time peeling off your clothes, your lover should be the only one exploding with anticipation...
Don’t forget this
Throughout your lap dance continue stroking yourself and don’t stay too close to him. Move away for brief moments' every now and again. No. He will have made a triangle with his legs. Stay in the triangle. Once you commit to the lap dance stay within the triangle. Alternate between your hands on his shoulders and standing up in the triangle.This will give him a chance to see your body and fantasize on what he would like to do to it…

You should also remember this...
Eye contact is very important. Let your eyes transmit all those sexy thoughts you have racing through your mind. Let him see your eyes burn with hunger, but stay cool, relaxed and most importantly - don’t forget to smile. YES! I call this the Predator Face...
The teasing isn't over yet…
Only a few more lap dancing instructions left to go. So, at this point you should get closer again, get so close you'll practically be sitting on his lap. Sensually lean in towards his ear. Nibble and lick it, breathing your hot breath over it, let out a soft aching moan. Softly nibble his neck, and then smell him, breathing him in as if you were getting high off his scent. Yep, yep, yep.
Touch him, tease him and watch him jump out of his skin
Rub your nipples along his body and face. I love this one.Withdraw if he tries to touch them. Slink in between his open legs and lower yourself until you're right in front of his firmly erect love handle. Flicker your tongue all over it. ..wait.. is this a blow job or a lap dance??? Rub it up and down – don’t keep this up too long – you don’t want him reaching any satisfaction. NO. You lap dance for him when he is fully dressed.
Congrats, by now you probably have him eating out of the palm of your hand!
Well, I think you just covered all the basic lap dancing instructions. Well, they covered the extra things but not really any moves. But the extra things were spot on.You should be more then ready to fly solo now. I recommend reading these instructions over once more and playing out each step. Practice the dance moves to your choice of music before your grand performance. And let these two basic ideas guide your way: work it slow and tease, tease, tease.

Death Proof Lap Dance

One of my fave students was recently discussing this lap dance from the movie Death Proof.
OK, so the dance is pretty good. Especially because she does the damn thing in flip flops. She lip synchs too, which normally is a no-no, but it works for her. I love the slide up to his face. I once had a girl do that to me in a lap dance and I immediatly added it to my dances and the guys loved it! Hot shit!

The little blue

Ok, on a push from one of my favorite gals, I will share this with you all. So, I think you have to be living under a rock if you don't know about Viagra and what it can do for those guys with an erection problem. What you might NOT know is what it can do for your guy who is perfectly healthy. OH-MY-GOD. Yep, that is all I can say. Now, I am not a doctor and taking pills that are not prescribed to you can have devastating effects . That being said. You just need half and the next day off, because you are going to be up all night. Literally. I can say from experience that it was pretty amazing. I didn't know a penis could get that hard!! Amazing.